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Update!!! Am I overreacting. Sorry if my grammar looks bad I'm crying my eyes out!!!

Anonymous
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So my ex and I agreed he could see our son (who's 19 month old) today at 10am till 130pm. 140pm role around I got worried and called the father. The fathers phone was off and then I started to get super worried and concerned. So I called my exs father and asked him where are they and is everything ok. 15 mins later i texted my exs father he said y'all agreed on 6 not 130 so I sent the screen shot of the text to prove what my ex and I agreed on. I told them I didn't care I had plans too but if they asked I wouldn't have mind. I said fine make sure he's home at 6pm. Now my exs dad is acting like my ex isn't going to bring our son back because he said I'm dangerous with my son. But my son has lived with me since a newborn I don't understand. Should I call the cops at 6pm if he doesn't come???

UPDATE our son home hungry and thirsty but safe at 6pm
Wow ladies, I wasn't expecting to see all the replies and thank you. We where never married so in state of Indiana we go by guidelines. I have court papers stating that. The father has already had our son more then the guidelines say because I want our son to see his father. Since
I receive child support they say I have primary custody. I called the cops I told them what was going on because I already been threw this with the father before not returning the child and we already have a couple reports. Any ways the cops said since they couldn't find the father at 5pm and his family refuse to give information. They where going to do amber alert. I didn't want to take it that far but cops advise me call them 6pm sharp to make the amber alert, 6pm father bangs on my door tells me that we agreed on 6pm when I have text says otherwise. But he says I agreed on phone when I haven't talk to him on phone in forever. I have our son home safe. Say the least are judge over here is butt said I should waited and went court house made a report. But the police are telling make report that second just incase he leaves state. It's big headache and lawyers don't help on unmarried custody battles.
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:10 PM
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luckystars2012
by Silver Member on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:11 PM
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Do you have a court order for custody?
JealousGrrl
by Gold Member on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:11 PM
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Yes, I'd call the cops if he doesn't come at 6.
.Bad.Wolf.
by Morsmordre on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:12 PM
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I would call now.

justpeachy71904
by peachy on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:13 PM
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Has he legitimated the child? Were you married when the child was born?

AngelSinger
by Platinum Member on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:13 PM
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Something's fishy. If you have an attorney, call him. And yes, call the cops.

Even if he brings him back, first thing Tuesday morning call an attorney. Because of the accusations, you need to protect your child and yourself. I'd ask the courts for supervised visitations. I think it's warranted in this case. 

CampClan
by Platinum Member on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:13 PM
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If your don't have a CO then there may be nothing you can do about it. Unless he is not on the birth certificate & you were never married. Then there may be something you can do. If this is the case he has no proof he is the father (unless you had a DNA test done & he has the results). Then I would call the cops.

TaralynnStewart
by Platinum Member on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:13 PM
Is there a court order? Police normally won't get involved unless there is a court order.
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katemckenzie
by Kate on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:14 PM
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If you have custody, call the cops.
Curlyswirlymom
by on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:14 PM
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I think I probably would.  The police are probably more familiar with the legal guidelines to something like this. 

HistoryNutty
by Ruby Member on Sep. 1, 2013 at 5:14 PM
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Not overreacting at all! I would have already called. You're being nice. Do call at six if they're not back though.
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