Her little brother is 9. He is autistic and is very set in routines and rigidity. He can get comfortable with small deviations after freaking out a little bit, but big ones can send him into a meltdown and bother him for an entire day.
As a tradition, they would go to the park every Sunday morning at 10 for an hour. They have done this for years. Recently, my daughter started to work as a bartender and doesn't get off until 3-3:30am.
She has started to claim she's too tired, too busy and would rather do other things with her Sunday. My son is devastated and freaks out when "park time" rolls around and they don't go. My husband has said that as long as she lives here, I should tell her it's expected she take him.
What would you do?