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Have I gone crazy? Someone please

Anonymous
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Tell me i'm not the only one who does this,


I have 4 boys and I've always wanted a daughter

We're currently trying to concieve, well have been for a while and everytime I get on my computer or phone I end up looking at little girl clothes. I go to the store and I look at little girl stuff. I google girl nursery themes and save pics of the ones I like. 

I have a board on pinterest dedicated to nothing but a daughter. 

I've even had to stop myself from buying girl baby clothes, I'm not pregnant nor do I know anyone who is with a girl. I just see the stuff and have the strong urge to buy it. 

I sit at work daydreaming of holding a baby girl all bundled in pink. 

Why am I so obsessed with this?

I feel like this isn't normal. 

Anyone else? 

I have a fear that i'll never get my baby girl and i'll never get to have that special bond. 

Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 2, 2013 at 7:59 PM
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TrouserMouse
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 8:00 PM
Are you me?
TrouserMouse
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 8:00 PM
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Oh wait, I have 5 boys. It can't be me. Phew! That was weird.
hershelsfavorit
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 8:02 PM

I've always wanted a baby girl. Hubby got me a dog instead, a male one. So I say good luck and as long as it doesn't overwhelm you, you are just fine.

kristen0812
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 8:02 PM
I have 2 girls, I'm undecided whether I want to try for a boy because of complications with my youngest. However, I've pinned boys beddings, boy clothes, I look at boy toys. I thought i was crazy! Turns out you're not crazy and not the only one :)
Elyce225
by Ruby Member on Sep. 2, 2013 at 8:02 PM
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I have 4 boys and 1 girl.

When I found out she was a girl I cried because it was a girl. I did not want a daughter. I'm so glad she is here now. I never knew I wanted one until I have her.

I never had the urge for a girl though.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 2, 2013 at 8:02 PM


Quoting TrouserMouse:

Are you me?

You do the same? Maybe i'm not alone after all. baby girl

areles
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 8:03 PM
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Can't relate. CAN tell you not to count on that bond, though. If that's why you want a daughter, you could end up disappointed...
the_dude
by abides on Sep. 2, 2013 at 8:03 PM

im sorry dudes, i dunno what to tell you, the dude has her boy and her baby girl. the dude hugs you all. 

TaralynnStewart
by Platinum Member on Sep. 2, 2013 at 8:03 PM
I have four girls and look at boy clothes all the time.
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areles
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 8:04 PM
Part of the reason I stopped at one was fear I'd end up with a girl.


Quoting Elyce225:



I have 4 boys and 1 girl.



When I found out she was a girl I cried because it was a girl. I did not want a daughter. I'm so glad she is here now. I never knew I wanted one until I have her.



I never had the urge for a girl though.

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