Why do some of you (please note said some) that breastfeed & push breastfeeding think you know it all?
I coud NOT breastfeed, I did NOT produce enough milk. My body failed me.
I tried for months, 2 drs (that yup were huge breastfeeding advocates), 2 lactation specialists, a nutritionist, my own research & many breastfeeders giving their advice as well, I just did not produce enough.
Yet some of you want to sit here & say "nope not true no such thing" like you know everything just bc you breastfeed or did. Or some want to bash away at me & tell me how lazy I am & how horrible of a mother I am.
Heck some have even made fun of my body failing me.
I see so many bash other's on here who couldn't breastfeed. FYI just bc you breastfeed & just bc some Drs are idiots doesn't mean some of you are the know it alls & you know everything about breastfeeding & issues some of us have had.
Honestly it is hard enough knowing your failed your child, knowing you couldn't provide for your child like you are suppose to.
Ever think that it was extremely hard for us & that bashing us doesn't help or making anything easier? Or by telling us how wrong we are that we could've produced enough milk had you just tried that it makes us question everything we did?
When your child is not gaining weight & constantly screaming out of hunger it is a horrible feeling to know it is your fault. Why do some of you breastfeeders feel the need to add salt to the wounds?