It angers me when women say "I just don't have the patience...
I will never understand people who say " I just don't have the patience to deal with my kids all the time" WHY HAVE KIDS?? If you don't want to deal with them don't freaking have them. I'll never understand people not wanting to accept responsibility for the choices they made. Yes YOU chose to have children, not anyone else, YOU. If you didn't want to deal with them you should not have had them. There are tons of people out there who would love to have children to "deal" with. Your kids need and deserve someone who cares about them enough to not see them as a burden. Yes, my kids get on my nerves from time to time, but "dealing" with them is my job as a mother. Its not their fault I chose to get pregnant and have them, it was mine, and I refuse to make them feel bad for MY choice.
Rant over... jump all over the post now cause you know you will..
I am not talking about taking a break now and then from your kids. Once in a while going out without them is completely understandable, and like I said my kids get on my nerves and I send them to grandmas one night every 1-2 months. BUT I'm talking about people who ship their kids off every weekend to go with their friends and get "wasted" and are constantly complaining about thier kids, and yes I know people like this in real life. It doesn't make sense to me. Everyone needs a break every now and then.