The man I cheated on my husband with just got a job at my husbands work
Well the title sums it up. I asked you ladies a while back what to do about cheating on my husband. It was one night durring a really bad time (I had divorce papers drawn up and signed and my husband and I were even figuring out what to do with the split of our things and what not, in my mind it was really done. In my husbands it wasnt and we have really worked on this the past few months and now things are great) Everyone here said to not tell him, to just deal with my guilt and be happy. I have done just that and even though it eats at me every day I chug away and things are fine.
Well the guy I cheated on my husband with was an ex bf from high school, we dated over 10 years ago. When my husband and I were splitting we started talking and the one night stand happened. After that I knew I never wanted any type of romantic relationship with him and on top of that he "came clean" about a ton of legal issues. Not someone I want my kids around especially in that manner. I said we could be friends but that was it, then he went to jail for a few months. Now hes out and texting me, just friend stuff and I will NOT see him again at all ever and he knows that. Well today he tells me he got a job in the town I live in, half an hour away from where he lives. I asked him where and he said the same place my husband works, they will work together for 4 hours each day because their shifts overlap.
I feel gutted, My husband knows who he is because I have pictures from us from high school when we dated. I have a very bad feeling this man will tell my husband will tell him, and even more so Im starting to freak out hes stalking me. We had a bad break up before and it was hard for him to deal with. I thought age would have changed him but obviously not. What do I do? My husband has been in his place of work for over 3 years now and obviously him quitting is not going to happen for no reason. I cant stop crying because I know I made an honest mistake but I KNOW my husband will never forgive me if he finds out.