I'm really nervous and scared to do this but it is my second-to-last option when dealing with my children's father. We split up for many reasons, the main reason being drugs. He would come home frequently high on drugs. He went to rehab but it didn't stick.
Anyway, I am getting ready to file for sole custody and have his visitation removed. No idea if I will win or what will happen.
Before I do that, I thought maybe I should try an intervention first. Thing is, his family isn't too fond of me. His mom is a really nice person so I doubt she would hold our past against me but the rest of the family does. I'm also not in contact with them and haven't seen or talked to them in ages.
I tried confronting my ex on my own. He sat there picking at his face and chewing on his gums and saying all along that he hasn't hit the pipe in ages. He has ALL the signs of full swing drug addiction.
So...IDK, what do you think? How will a mom to a grown son react to the ex wife wanting to have an intervention? None of us really know, but would you do it?