My husband is going on a trip for work to Georgia in two weeks and he will be there for two nights. A few days ago I noticed he started deleting a lot of things on his phone like old Facebook messages, emails, basically just a lot of random things. Well I got onto his Facebook (bash away, I don't care at this point) and watched the messages disappear before my eyes. When I asked him about it, he said he had connected with an old friend and they were talking and the reason he deleted it was because he knew how I would over react. Well, I let it go, and forgot about it. I was on his phone earlier though, looking for a link he had sent me that wasn't working, and found that was browsing the casual encounters section of Macon, Augusta, and Atlanta on Craigslist. WTF? Now my husband has been a playboy, always. And a really big part of me is saying that I'm stupid, he was just looking, whatever. But there is this other part, the part of me that's been hurt and lied to countless times before, that's saying, "Oh HELL no!" I'm not really sure what to do. Again, bash away, I don't really care. But if anyone has ANY words of actual advice, this woman would be very appreaciative.
If I could just not go to work that weekend and drive up there, I would. But unfortunately there is no way that can happen. I just wish there was a way for me to know for certain. And I know, I shouldn't feel this way towards my husband.