A bridesmaid? I don't know if they should marry!! WWYD?
I have been asked to be a bridesmaid at my own sister's wedding. Sweet right? NO. I have serious convictions. First one being she has always been about herself and he wants kids. Growing up she let the rest of us (there are 4 after her) know we were a mistake and that if it weren't for us she could have had so much more in life. Second, she has been dating this guy for a year, after her first husband left her (both of them cheated and treated each other horribly which she pretends was one sided), and she hasn't acted like the person I have known for 34 years since they started dating this new guy. I mean I hope it's a permanant change but what if it's not?? This is his first marriage and he does want kids. As far as I know she hasn't told him she doesn't (she's always wanted the attention focused on her), and she has told others she doesn't really want them but thinks it is sweet that he does. So should someone warn him of what he may be getting himself into? I love my sister but I iam not oblivious to the person she is on the inside, where most people just see her as she wants them to. WWYD? What would you do????
PS. He seems like a really nice guy with a great family, so he would be a welcome addition to my family.