We live with my mom (please don't bash)..well it was bedtime, so dh got the kids their bedtime snack. Well ds didn't want what dh Gave him..so my son started crying. I knew he was over tired and told him eat his cookies then head to bed. well ds threw the cookies, so dh told him to go to bed. My mom hears my ds crying cause he has to clean his room. I told my mom to come out of ds room..he is seven years old he can clean his room. Then dd starts crying to my mom how he didn't get a bedtime snack. I told him that was a lie, and he could go eat what he was given or go to bed. My mom starts throwing a fit saying I don't love my son, so dh said when dd cries he always gets his way. So my mom said to dh "well your not even his real father so what you say doesn't count".
I stand up and said he is their dad but just not by blood".
So dh comes in the room and starts packing. He saids I have three days to pack and move with him. We have a place to go. But my thing is..I am caught between my mom and husband. My mom said if I leave, I am not to call her for anything and she would worry about my kids because I am not a good mother.
I can't stop crying...
I am leaving with my Dh Friday. To clear up a few of things..my Dh is a wonderful person. He has never raised a hand to me or my kids. My kids bio-father hasn't seen or heard from in five years.
My mom is very controlling, the reason we have lived with her is because she couldn't afford to live on her own. Any other questions please ask.