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My husband

Anonymous
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My husband was born a female. My husband is a trans-man. I didnt find out until after we were married that my husband used to be a woman. It betrayed me. I was hurt. Do you think im dumb for staying? What do you think of transgender people? We used a sperm donor to conceive our children.
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 5, 2013 at 1:51 PM
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wickedfiress
by Platinum Member on Sep. 5, 2013 at 1:54 PM
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Did you not test drive the car before purchasing?

Blooming_Lotus
by Platinum Member on Sep. 5, 2013 at 1:56 PM
I think you are a wonderful wife. He is very lucky.
Pink.Sunshine.
by on Sep. 5, 2013 at 1:56 PM

I would never be with a man that changed his gender. It would bother me for some reason. I don't have any bad thoughts about transgender people except when they deceive straight people that they date into thinking they were born that way. Be honest up front and let people make their own decisions. Too much watching MTVs True Life over here.

       

imakehimscream
by He screams on Sep. 5, 2013 at 1:56 PM
Err so you never had oral or sex?
twinmommy27
by Ruby Member on Sep. 5, 2013 at 1:56 PM
Does it work right, I mean besides the sperm part?
Armymom134
by Gold Member on Sep. 5, 2013 at 1:56 PM
I'd leave. That is a huge misrepresentation of themselves especially if the spouse wants kids.
bluebunnybabe
by Ruby Member on Sep. 5, 2013 at 1:57 PM
I think that if you love him then that is your choice to stay or not & whatever you choose is right for you. I don't think I could have stayed because of the betrayal. Also, you should consult a lawyer & make sure your marriage is valid. I'm not sure but I think in some states it may not be.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 5, 2013 at 1:57 PM
He has a penis


Quoting imakehimscream:

Err so you never had oral or sex?

NikkiPitt0805
by Member on Sep. 5, 2013 at 1:57 PM

 I am curious as to how you didn't know.  I may be ignorant in not knowing how gender re-assignment works.....I mean if you love DH then no, you aren't dumb for staying, but I do think he should have been honest with you before you got married.

OwlNuggets
by HAIL NUGGY! on Sep. 5, 2013 at 1:58 PM
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You loved him for who he was then.

Remember that.

It shouldn't change anything now.

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