A little back story. My SIL is 34, her fiance is turning 19 next week. They moved in with us in June when they had their son who is now a few months old because of financial problems. Well, MIL is "staying" with us to help with the new babies, we just had ours August 13th. Their child is severly over weight because they have fed him cereal in his bottle since he was about a week old and started feeding him baby food for sitters from gerber in his bottle around a month ago. I believe because of the food they have given him that his body isn't ready for he became colicy and cries at least half the day, screams that if they catch u off gaurd you'll think is a grown woman screaming. Well SIL goes to work most days and this boy is left with the baby that he now screams at and he hits shit in their room. He started by always sternly telling the baby, just month old baby, to "Hush." Now this dude seriously screams at this baby. I've said a little to him, tried to explain that the baby doesn't understand him but his tone is upsetting him more. Boy acts like he listens, but things just go back to how they were. Most of the time he refuses help with the baby. I've spoken with MIL who finally talked to SIL about it. To add to all of this I've heard this little asshole complaining about my toddler, who btw had to give up his play room for them to move in, and I've heard them bitching to eachother about all of us. Now the father was overheard telling SIL that popping him on the hand doesn't work. Now I'm sick of them being here, but I wish I could do something to help my nephew and really their family as a whole. I need advise before this turns into a huge fight because I will not have this 3 1/2 month old baby being abused in my house. This bullshit ends today one way or another, but I would really like for it to get better and not have a terrible relationship with these people, before they moved in we were close, so please someone tell me what to do.
I love my familymy loving man, and my little loveys!