We were supposed to leave on the first. Seeing how my mom has medical problems things happened, and she had important dr appointments she couldn't miss. We are now leaving on the 14th. Dh is now livid, again. He was supposed to go out of town on Sunday for three days. He refused to ask anyone to help him with the animals, my dad was also out of town. He told his boss he couldn't go and he is now blaming me and my mom. ( I want to add, he had no definite plans of going out of town before we left.)
He keeps texting me saying horrible things like:
If your leaving me just tell me.
Where can I ship the rest of your things?
He is saying that my mom will not step foot in his house. He is saying he will call the cops if she shows up. He doesn't want her there with her dog. My mom has to take her dog, and the worst part of this is, he knows how it is to have sick family members! Both his mother and sister passed do to being extremely ill. If this was his family it would be a completely different tune.
On top of that, not once has he asked about ds. Not once has he wanted to know anything about our trip, or the things we have seen and done. The only thing he talks about is himself, when are we leaving, and how my mom and her dog better not step foot in HIS house.
I am tired of it! He is acting like a child! My mother has to bring us home, and it is a long drive. It's not like she can pull up in our drive way and dump us out.
What would you tell your dh? What do I say to him?
Edit ~ I completely understand why he is upset. I get where dh is coming from. I agree things should have been planned better or something.
HOWEVER he has absolutely no right to talk to me like he has, or to say the things he said.