I dont trust my ex - dd's father **HE told me why**
We were together off and on from 2004 to 2008. Things ended not so good between us. We were toxic together. I hurried up and got custody settled in less than 24 hours, agreeing to terms that I didnt actually agree on - but our daughter was happy. And we both got to see her.
At the end of 2011, he moved 20 miles away - So that meant to get her to and from school he'd have to drive 20 miles one way to get her to school and 20 miles back home, twice a day. Logically, it made sense for her to stay with me during the school week and to go to him on weekends.
Well the beginning of this year - he moved back to his old house - but we didnt change who had her when.
He has NEVER held a job longer than 5 months. NEVER!!
So....he starts giving me this bullshit that he is starting a new job, but wants to put her as his beneficiary. Well hes begging me for her social security number. And its been 4 weeks since he started asking, but yet he hasnt started the job yet (that I know of). Hes always home.
I claim her on taxes, because he doesnt work. I just dont trust him with her social security number.
I've asked him to show me the beneficiary papers, he wont do it.
So then he texts me and tells me he went to social security office - i ask why, and he keeps telling me to call him. Well I'm at work. and I cant call him. So lord only knows what he messed up now.
******He just told me that he didnt need her social for the beneficiary thing he said he needs it because he has to get heating assistance. Well I then proceeded to tell him I was not giving it to him so our daughter could be some huge part of a fraudelant scheme thing.
hes mad. but oh well.