Ok I spoke to him. He acted surprised and completely denied the video. I had the same talk with my nine year old as well. However the twelve yr old is chunkier in the belly and it was a down shot so it couldn't have been anyone else, because no other children that around that size come around my house. So I explained to both of them that it's a private thing that can not be shared on video or any other way. Also that it's illegal and that I could have spent a very long time in prison had someone else seen that. And I don't believe anything was sent out because they're Internet and phone usage is very closely monitored. Even they're ds devices don't have web access.