Update: I think it's funny how many are bashing that I have a used car and dh a new one and equating this with how much he just love and respect me. I am a sahm. I don't have to work, we are financially responsible and not on any PA. We live frugally and we at this time cannot afford 2 new cars without giving up savings. My car is not a necessity it is an extra. I'm grateful to have it.
Letting dh have something of his own, the only thing solely his, is not a big deal when he works extremely hard to provide for our family so I don't have to work.
I feel sorry for the husbands if those of you who frankly seem selfish. Can't your husband have ONE thing to call his own?
Dh bought me a 13 yr old van. Then he bought himself a brand new Subaru Impreza.
He said he prefers I not drive his car unless necessary.
This is the first time he's ever been possessive if something. It's his first brand new car. I am surprisingly not offended. I told him I'm fine just driving the van.
Would you be mad? Is your dh/so the same way?