See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
my nephew is getting married in a month to his gf that he's been with since high school. 2 months ago my nephew told everyone that him and his gf were getting married in October this year,his mom was the only one who thought he was joking,she never told my brother. then we 2 or 3 weeks ago we all went to a swap meet and my nephews gf was telling my brother that while we're there she needs to find wedding shoes......he had no idea what she was talking about,my sil argued with him all day long about it saying "why the hell do they need to get married? blah blah blah". then yesterday was my sil's birthday,i got there first and then my nephew,his gf and their ds came about an hour after me,my nephew had to work for 5 hours yesterday so he dropped his gf and ds off. my sil completely ignored my nephews gf,my brother took the gf and my niece to the strip to look for wedding stuff (my nephew needed his shirt and their ds needed a suit) then when they got back my sil was sitting at the table and she asked the gf "is your dad happy about the wedding?" the gf goes "yeah my whole family is happy,im the oldest grand daughter in the family so they are excited" my sil screwed up her face and gave the gf a "whatever then" look. then when my other niece and my other nephew got there they completely ignored the gf and kept giving her looks of disgust.
im honestly shocked that my sil is treating my nephews gf the EXACT same way my mom treated her.....my sil was so upset about my mom treating her that way and now shes doing it to her own sons future wife......what really baffles me is while the gf was pregnant my sil kept telling my nephew to marry her(the gf) and now that they are she treats the gf like this.......my nephew told me last night before they left that if his mom keeps this up he's not going to bring his ds around nor any of their future kids....and i can honestly understand.....
this whole thing makes me sad,the gf's face last night before they left said it all,she was upset and it made me sad