wwyd...non family member posted fb pictures of your kids
*ETA when the pictures were taken i was told they were just going to be text to me and sil. No big deal. They are cute pics. At the time i wasnt friends with her on fb. About a month or so later she sent me and dh a friend request. This was when i found out they were there. I told dh i wasnt ok with it but he said to leave it alone as we had been fighting with his brother and sil and this is their best friend. I left it alone because he asked me to. Well when we had our blow out fight, apparently the friend ended up deleting us as friends. So i was never comfortable with her having the pictures and was never told they would be on fb.
*ETA 2: when these pics were taken, it was the second time i had met her. The first time, we had all had a conversation in general about pictures of kids being posted by people who werent the parent without the parents consent and we all agreed that it wasnt acceptable. It was in referance to paperwork bil/sil had to fill out at their dd daycare regarding pictures veing taken and posted on facebook or used for advertising. She knew where i stood. As i stated before, out of respect for my dh i did not address it when i found them. Even he now agrees we shoukd have, but we cant go back. The bottom line is they are pictures of my children and she was asked to take them down and has refused. That does not make me petty. Petty is her changing her profile picture to one of MY children.