Dh wants her to drop down to state minimum for visitation (Wednesday afternoon and eowe) because ss is still struggling with routine and needs more stability.
She's now unemployed, has gotten evicted, isn't giving ss his medicine for his allergies, isn't following the treatment for ss's adhd(diet and routine), and is missing or showing up hours late for visitation. She keeps him out of preschool, doesn't make him do assignments on her time, and He also misses all extracurriculars on mom's time, even though She's co'ed to take him. She's also said she's about to get kicked out of her current living situation, and who knows where she'll go if that happens.
It's seems like a pretty cut and dry case, to me...Dh thinks we can get it changed to state guidelines without a lawyer. Idk if that will be possible. However, we hired a lawyer last time, and dh's ex signed over primary custody without it going to court. So he he may be right... What do you think? Do we have enough of a case ( this is all documented through calendars, emails from coaches and teachers, letters from doctors, etc.)