Walked out when I was pregnant, started drugs
3 years later, sobered up- meet ds. Couple weeks later, I cut contact because he started drugs again... where he was drunk around ds, and taking ds to his dealers house to get his drugs.
4 years after that- claims he sobered up, wants to be there.... I let him see ds for a few hours, under my supervision. That was the last true contact between them, a week ago.
He wants ds for the weekend. Overnight. Since ds is older now, do I allow that? Or say no for many reasons? I don't feel comfortable letting him take him. Since he wanted to be a dad, hes only seen him for a day.
How long do I wait until I finally say, no, just go away or get an order for visitation.
I have full custody. Unmarried mother law or whatever