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Why MOST people are on assistance.

Anonymous
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MOST OF THE TIME.... it's single mothers on government assistance.... WHY? Because pos fathers walk Out and leave their children high & dry with nothing! I always see people bitching on here about how flawed the system is JUST REMEMBER NOT ALL ABUSE IT AND MOST OF THE TIME ARE ASHAMED THEY ARE..

As a single (once SAHM) I wanna thank all of you who worked and made it possible that I could feed and keep a roof over my children's head until I got back on my feet.

(Just saying, venting )

PS to SAHM & wives: ALWAYS HAVE A BACK UP PLAN.. No matter how "perfect" your husband is.
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:49 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:50 PM
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actually no, most people on fs are not single moms, try again...
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:50 PM
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Most of those women didn't have to have those children or pick low life men.

wymama610
by Gold Member on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:51 PM

LMAO


ButterMeUp
by Butters on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:51 PM
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In many cases, mothers are also to blame for the situations caused by dead beat dads.

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NonaScheib38
by Gold Member on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:51 PM
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Shit happens. Thanks for helping out a fellow human being who didn't make as good as decisions as you would have in the same situation.

Quoting Anonymous:

Most of those women didn't have to have those children or pick low life men.



katallison
by Silver Member on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:52 PM
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 While some on PA are single moms trying to get by, MOST aren't. They are lazy ass people not trying to better their lives.

 

And I just want to ask, what happened in your marraige? I don't have a back up plan and don't feel I need one, but of course I always have family close by that I know I can run to if anything ever happened.

NonaScheib38
by Gold Member on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:53 PM
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1) what would be something a mother could do to turn a guy into a deadbeat? I mean, is there anything YOUR s/o could do to make you abandon your children? 2) who's discussing blame in this post? She's saying "Hey, I fucked up. A lot of us on assistance fucked up in this way. Thanks for helping me out, I'm better now"


Quoting ButterMeUp:

In many cases, mothers are also to blame for the situations caused by dead beat dads.



JTROX
by Platinum Member on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:53 PM

Of course, its not the single moms' fault.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:53 PM
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Oh bullshit! Like any woman WOULD PICK A MAN THEY KNEW WOULD WALK OUT ON THEM... That's such a stupid thing to say..


Quoting Anonymous:

Most of those women didn't have to have those children or pick low life men.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:54 PM
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Maybe the men put on a good act in the beginning and maybe they they had their children at a Time where they could afford them. Shit happens sometimes.

Quoting Anonymous:

Most of those women didn't have to have those children or pick low life men.

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