Haha, I was trying to reply to the post about the womans ex and his SO coming to the party dressed up on their way to a concert and it poofed. She thought a 4 year old was a toddler. I am pretty sure even if your kid is NOT in school they are no longer a toddler after 2. I guess she thought a kid was a toddler until they were physically in school. That means I was a toddler until I was 6 since I didn't go to pre-k and my birthday fell too late for me to go to kinder when I was 5.