I have four children and my oldest now 22, has really always been very mean....disturbed....violent ..and just miserable. She was placed in therapy for years. I often feel I have to walk on egg shells around her just to keep peace. I love her..but she makes my life miserable when she is having her episodes and is around me. My other kids are normal.
She is on her own and she is like bi polar and doesn't stay on meds.
I've come to a point where I see no positives being around her. She is a negative force around the other younger kids.
I feel gulity..but feel the need to protect myself and do not want her around her younger siblings.
I love her..but don't want her around when she is screaming cursing and dumping on me. She has told me I am a horrible mom....abusive mom..and every curse word in the book.
She also has a baby that I helped her with for two years. He stayed with me 10 hours a day five days a week. She now often uses him as leverage. He is 2.5 now and she is becoming to firm with him.
I'm just done. I easier her put up with her for years. I don't want her around me.