I'm adopting a little girl. She will be here any day now. Obviously the birth mom can change her mind and she's not mine yet but hopefully. I want to have a baby shower about a month or two months after everything is finalized that way we will have time to plan it, everything will be in place, and Baby Girl will be old enough to attend. It all depends on when things are finalized and settled. We don't want to call it an adoption shower as several family members are insisting on. I just want to call it a welcome baby shower or just a baby shower. Other than me not being pregnant and Baby Girl will be there, it wont be different than a normal shower. Do you have any objections? Would you attend if you were invited to a shower like this?