Would you let your dd be babysat for a boy babysitter? My friend has a son and I think that is fine. The boy is 4 and the babysitter is 12 but I feel more comfortable with a female babysitter, but my nephew wants to babysit and I don't think anything wrong with it.
So today I let a event pass because I couldn't find a female babysitter for my dd and I was offered that she come over with the male babysitter but I still don't feel comfortable.
What do you think?
I think it is great to babysit no matter the gender but do you believe for boys the gender does not matter but for girls only females should babysit?
I am just curious what other think.
Eta. The boy babysitter I am talking about I never met. He is not my nephew.
I never mentioned anything about being a sex offender so please stop putting things in the post something I never mentioned.
I was not comfortable with a male babysitter who is twelve babysitting my dd. that is all and that is what I was curious about. People are reading other things into this. Even the kids own mother wouldn't want him babysitting her. I am not the only one that thinks this way.
She has had one babysitter here and she was in her twenties. I am afraid to leave her with anyone but family but my family is not here.
I never meant to imply that I didn't trust men..men are wonderful care takers. My nephew wants to babysit ( not for me) i think it is great. My brother, his father is not for it. I am not the only one that is like this. It is just I feel uncomfortable. I hope that cleared some things up.