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His EX requested..." No romantic OVERNIGHT guest while kids are present in divorce decree...

Anonymous
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Can we fight it in court?

Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 16, 2013 at 3:23 PM
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P.V.Hawkwind
by Ruby Member on Sep. 16, 2013 at 3:24 PM

I am sure you can try.

Hannahluvsdogs
by Ruby Member on Sep. 16, 2013 at 3:24 PM

Yes

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 16, 2013 at 3:24 PM
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Ok? I don't see why that's a problem. I wouldn't want that around my kids either.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 16, 2013 at 3:25 PM
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I don't see the problem. When my ex and I split, he wanted our decree to say we couldn't live with a boyfriend or girlfriend. And no over night guests. I wouldn't have done it anyway so I didn't fight it.
supercarp
by on Sep. 16, 2013 at 3:26 PM
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It is a reasonable request. The kids shouldn't be exposed to fornication.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Sep. 16, 2013 at 3:26 PM
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If my ex ever takes me to court, I'd want that too. I'd also try to put at least a year long relationship before overnights with the partner, if ds is there. Hopefully he never takes me to court
la-cosa-nostra
by Gold Member on Sep. 16, 2013 at 3:26 PM
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you can try, but it wont go over well. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Sep. 16, 2013 at 3:26 PM
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 Is it the same rule for him as for you?  If not I would fight that crap.

Cmgmqmmom
by on Sep. 16, 2013 at 3:26 PM
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I don't think it's unreasonable to not want your ex-spouse to have sleep overs with the opposite sex. if I ever found myself in a divorce, I think that I would request something similiar. I can't very well tell my children that casual sex isn't okay and then go and do it myself.

owl0210
by Emerald Member on Sep. 16, 2013 at 3:27 PM
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Yes you sure can. Judges don't like to legislate morality from the bench. It's a control tactic by the bitter ex-spouse.
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