Ok so no I don't have custody.... long story short.. he took her and ran before we had a CO. He settled with her 700 miles from where we lived and enrolled her in school and all sorts of activities. Refused to let me see her and barely let me talk to her. Finally got to court and he had paid a therapist to say that I had scarred my DD and tried to get me for abondment. I had documented every phne call, every letter that was sent and in turn returned refused etc. So the judge ruled him have primary custody and I had 2 supervised visits to reestablish our relationship with weekly phone calls. Well he stalled on the visits and refused to abide by them so I took him back to court. We finally got our visitation working decently. He lives with his mom and she loves having our DD there as she is getting a second chance at a DD of her own. She has always hated me and loves turning the dagger every chance she gets.
Anyways next weekend DD has a costume fitting for her part in the Nutcracker. It is my weekend with her. His mom is refusing to let me have my weekend unless I give DD to her on Saturday for the fitting. I told her that it was my weekend and that there is NO reason that I can not take her. I am her mother. She then said oh well in that case that weekend does not work for us. I told her that she has no say in it she said that she will have my ex discuss it with me, which I know will be her signing into his email and sending me an email with what she wants. Do I really have to let her take her and not me?
Yes I have called my lawyer but he was gone for the night and won't be able to answer until tomorrow so what are your thougths?
And yes I am taking him back for custody but my laywer said we have to wait until one year has passed since the last order and that is not until may.....