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Do you think being homosexual, bi or even straight is a choice? Or do you think people are born that way?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I ask because I just had a woman on here message me and tell me that "since being lesbian is so hard maybe you should just CHOOSE to be straight, after all you chose to be a lesbian in the first place! You need to repent now before you burn in hell." So I ask: Do you think people choose their sexuality or do you think they were born that way? P.S. The woman who messaged me is a well known judgmental slag on here who constantly uses the bible as a reason for her hate and ignorance so it didn't surprise me any.
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 16, 2013 at 9:42 PM
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wkukid
by Beach Bum on Sep. 16, 2013 at 9:43 PM
You can't fight ignorance. Just ignore judgemental slugs.
Freela
by Platinum Member on Sep. 16, 2013 at 9:43 PM
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No, I don't think it's a choice.  I've never chosen who I've been attracted to.  I assume that other people aren't choosing any more than I did.

Islandmom2boys
by Platinum Member on Sep. 16, 2013 at 9:44 PM
I guess the same way straight people become straight. We are born that way.
momto2boys973
by Ruby Member on Sep. 16, 2013 at 9:45 PM

No, I don't think BEING gay is a choice.

slw123
by on Sep. 16, 2013 at 9:47 PM

I think you are born that way.

doomshroom
by Gold Member on Sep. 16, 2013 at 9:47 PM
wow.

no, i do not think it's a choice. i think we are attracted to who we are attracted to, and there's no reason anyone should live in denial.
PitbullPrincess
by Woof on Sep. 16, 2013 at 10:00 PM

Born that way.

jlbelknap35
by Jessica on Sep. 16, 2013 at 10:05 PM
Born that way and like Ron White says "you can't fix stupid"
AubreeGrace17
by Platinum Member on Sep. 16, 2013 at 10:06 PM
Just like the song!
Mamie_85
by Platinum Member on Sep. 16, 2013 at 10:07 PM
born that way. for sure. I also get admitted when gays and lesbians laugh at my bisexuality. yes, I have loved both men and women equally. yes, I'm attracted to both equally. the time in my life when other kids were getting crushes, I found myself "liking" both boys and girls.
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