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I'm not the sharpest but I felt like he was being inappropriate. Was I right?

Anonymous
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I deleted my friend of 20 years from fb. He was a high school friend wich I briefly dated when I was 15. We've never had anything between us after, but remained friends. After I got married he seemed to try to push the limits of appropriate I think? For instance.

When I would see he was going through a hard time I'd message him asking if he's doing ok, and he would reply jokingly "Whats up doll-you still married?" I told him to please not joke about my marriage and he just said "what you guys can't take a joke?" 

Or when I post something that shows I'm irritated he replies with things like "I like it when you're fiesty"

Is it just me or has he been disrespecting the fact that I'm married? I deleted him, just want to make sure my intuition was correct, or maybe I was being too sensitive?

Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 18, 2013 at 1:07 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 18, 2013 at 1:08 AM
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Eh, yeah he's flirty. If it bugs you, delete him. I'd probably just brush it off.

laineysmum
by Silver Member on Sep. 18, 2013 at 1:10 AM
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With stuff like this? Always. Trust. Your. Instincts.

Always.
mrsrodgers0703
by Ruby Member on Sep. 18, 2013 at 1:10 AM
I don't think the 'are you still married' thing was that big of a deal. It sounds like he was honestly joking.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 18, 2013 at 1:12 AM

I would have laughed it off, but you have to go with what makes you feel better.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Sep. 18, 2013 at 1:12 AM


Well I felt like I couldn't be normal anymore w.o a sexual innuendo comment.

Quoting Anonymous:

Eh, yeah he's flirty. If it bugs you, delete him. I'd probably just brush it off.



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Sep. 18, 2013 at 1:13 AM


I have been married less than a year if that matters.

Quoting mrsrodgers0703:

I don't think the 'are you still married' thing was that big of a deal. It sounds like he was honestly joking.



hautemama83
by Emerald Member on Sep. 18, 2013 at 1:14 AM
Sounds like hes a jokester. No big deal imo.
tardistraveller
by on Sep. 18, 2013 at 1:15 AM

I wouldn't like that.  In the end, if it makes you uncomfortable, than it is not ok.

mrsrodgers0703
by Ruby Member on Sep. 18, 2013 at 1:16 AM
Yeah, I honestly think he was just joking around with you. He didn't say anything sexual or vulgar.. Just a joke. That's just my opinion though.


Quoting Anonymous:


I have been married less than a year if that matters.


Quoting mrsrodgers0703:

I don't think the 'are you still married' thing was that big of a deal. It sounds like he was honestly joking.





Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Sep. 18, 2013 at 1:17 AM

I asked him to respect the fact that I don't care for that kind of joking,


Quoting hautemama83:

Sounds like hes a jokester. No big deal imo.



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