I'm not the sharpest but I felt like he was being inappropriate. Was I right?
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by Anonymous 5
on Sep. 18, 2013 at 3:06 AM
I think you were being too sensitive but it's your life. Be friends with whoever you choose to.

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Silver Member
on Sep. 18, 2013 at 3:11 AM
I think he was being flirty, not necessarily disrespecting your marriage. But since you're uncomfortable with his words, then good on you :o)

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Gold Member
on Sep. 18, 2013 at 3:17 AM
i dont know, none of my male friends post creepy stuff like that.. even when they are joking.

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Sarah
on Sep. 18, 2013 at 3:37 AM
If it makes you uncomfortable, you did the right thing, you did tell him you didnt appreciate it, and he continued, so that part to me is the disrespectful part, not the things he actually said.

It all sounds normal to me. Especially with my close male friends we go back and forth with those comments
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on Sep. 18, 2013 at 3:42 AM
I'd be uncomfortable. I always tell SO right away if something like that happens. For example, a coworker messaged me the other day saying he likes how I look in yoga pants. I didn't respond and told SO (everyone at work knows my SO and that we just had our baby) but he didn't seem to care at all. I thought it was really creepy and it made me uncomfortable.
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on Sep. 18, 2013 at 3:45 AM
I understand what you mean. And yes you need to protect you marriage. I think he was making a joke and testing the water so to speak...
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