I get nothing now. I did all of those things even after he stopped but got to a point where I was so irritated I said screw it. Why do men or some men I should say think its ok to bait a woman in making her think he is this kind hearted, romantic, affectionate, teddy bear and then after they are together a couple years completely takes away the person she fell in love with?
It's so unfair.
How do you keep the romance
EDIT: for those who asked, yes I did have a previous post about his previous affairs making me feel like I need to have sex with him near constantly. And yes I am 18 weeks pregnant with my fourth child, he will hopefully be my third living child.
I want to work out my marriage which is why I am asking for advice on getting they romantic spark back because I feel lost and don't know what to do to improve that.
Thanks for your answers and the support. I have no one else to lean on for friendship or advise