This will be long - warning-
Me and bio daddy were 13 and 14 when i got pregnant. 14 and 15 when he was born. He dumped me when i was 5 months pregnant for being fat and emotional. Disappeared completely even stopped going to school until i was about 7 months along when he wanted to go to my Lamaze class. Let him come with. He went every week for 5 weeks then disappeared until time to give birth. Showed up for the birth. Stayed a night and came home with me until his mom could pick him up.
several months pass before he sees his kid again. Sees kid 3/4 times then stops again. This time for 6 months. Shows back up wanting to take child to holiday party by himself. No way.
See's him two more times then disappear. Kid is now almost 2. Doesn't see him for a couple more months. Comes over in October (3 months before kid turns 3.) Screams at my then 2 year old not to call my now husband daddy. Then storms off after i grabbed the kid and told him to leave. Hits my now husband's rentle car and took off.
Hasn't seen now 5 year old since that october and is turning six in jan. He texted me last year for halloween wanting to go trick or treating with us. Never showed. No text again until this last week.
Now he is trying to bribe me with signing for my kid's passport. if and only IF he see's his kid for a year straight. Oh, and he will start paying childsupport that he is COURT ordered to pay.He seems to forget that I'm not the one stopping him. He is the one that never shows up.
I'm so fucking sick of this guy. He name calls and tries to belittle my husband and I. He thinks he can come and go as he please, Bring random people with as he please. He tries to help himself to my food. He still refuses to admit I'm married. In every text he sends he makes a point to including my husband and belittle him down to boyfriend or that guy.
Oh and here is the kicker we use to leave 2 SMALL blocks away from the school he went too. Then he moved. We now live 30 minutes away from him and he wants ME to pay for him to come see his kid. I'm moving next year an hour and a half away from where I live now and 2 hours away from him.