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Wwyd if your dh wants you to have a abortion?

Anonymous
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We have four children have lost two in the past. I'm about 9 weeks pregnant I had a ultrasound recently baby had strong heartbeat he refuses to be involved at all. He says I'm ruining the family that I'm making a mistake.
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 19, 2013 at 12:14 AM
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MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Sep. 19, 2013 at 12:15 AM
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 I would listen to his concerns and then make the choice *I* felt most comfortable with.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 19, 2013 at 12:15 AM

How are you ruining the family? Why does he feel that way? Were you trying to get pregnant?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 19, 2013 at 12:17 AM

Unless he had damn good reasons for the suggestion, I'd be out the door.

However my husband is pretty much pro-life.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Sep. 19, 2013 at 12:17 AM
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do you have other marital problems? I'd just tell DH to go get a vasectomy so this doesn't happen again and then keep the baby.

snowbear74
by on Sep. 19, 2013 at 12:17 AM
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he slept with you and knew it could happen so how its it your fault and how are you ruining the family when he took part in creating the baby?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Sep. 19, 2013 at 12:18 AM
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I would abort my dh lol.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Sep. 19, 2013 at 12:20 AM
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He wanted me to get one but I refused.
mommy1234242
by on Sep. 19, 2013 at 12:20 AM

if he didn't want another child why didnt he discuss this with you before you had sex without bc - I seriously don't understand 

QueenBof6
by Ruby Member on Sep. 19, 2013 at 12:22 AM
We would discuss it in length. He has been snipped. So it's likely that would be our course of action should it fail.
LadyVoldemort
by on Sep. 19, 2013 at 12:22 AM



Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 I would listen to his concerns and then make the choice *I* felt most comfortable with.


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