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DAMN IN-LAWS SMDH

Posted by on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:41 PM
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My FIL is an asshole. 100%.
I love my MIL with all of my heart.

When I first met him, he was a dick... now, he's still a dick. But he loves and adores his grandson so that's really what matters.

A couple of weeks ago, DF asked his parents to watch ds so we could go out to this football party. They said no. Ok.
But, I needed DFs phone for something and his texts to his father were up...
The day he asked them to watch ds, his father said:
"Where's Chi? What role does she even play in your relationship? "

That pissed me off and hurt my little feelings incredibly.
I do EVERYTHING around the house, and their son is more responsible because of me.

So I won't go over their house anymore. Of course ds can go whenever they want him (I'm not that type of person lol) but I refuse to be uncomfortable.

So, DF told his father that he pissed me off. They got into an argument over it.
Now, to make up for it... FIL wants to buy me paint

LMMFAO paint!!!???
Smh, that's cute.
by on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:41 PM
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LauraBelle9812
by EmmasMom on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:44 PM
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Paint? For what?
outtamymynd
by Ruby Member on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:45 PM
What a weird peace offering lol.
What did he mean by that? You don't spend enough time at home?
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twinners.mama
by Gold Member on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:46 PM
O goodness. Haha paint won't change what he thinks of you. What a random thing to want to buy you. Haha
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:46 PM
I'm sorry you're going through this :(
My FiL is an asshole too. They live 5 1/2 hours away, which would seem like a good thing, except that whenever we DO see them, they stay with us. FiL is in town by himself right now. He's been in town since Sunday for a week and a half stay, and I swear I'm ready to rip his throat out!
I'm sick, the 2yo has croup and was in the ER the other night, and FiL is still being as intrusive and obnoxious as ever. Plus hubby just left this morning to be out of town for the weekend for work. This is NOT going to go well!!
couture-mommy
by She.Me.Her on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:46 PM
Lmao he couldn't have.
I'm a SAHM.
Sometimes I don't leave the home for 7days straight.

He's really just an old dick lol


Quoting outtamymynd:

What a weird peace offering lol.

What did he mean by that? You don't spend enough time at home?

couture-mommy
by She.Me.Her on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:47 PM
A peace offering lol


Quoting LauraBelle9812:

Paint? For what?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:48 PM

I wouldn't want my child to date someone with your past either. That's without me knowing anything about you.


Maybe if he got to know you better?

KGreen75
by on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:48 PM
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I hate both of my inlaws... They are not allowed in my home and I will NEVER step foot Around them again. They are hypocrites and assholes.

My husband is mad at me that when we go to Florida to visit them, we stay in a hotel and while he and the kids are at his parents house, my ass stays at the hotel.
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CotterpinDoozer
by Gold Member on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:48 PM

What is the paint supposed to be a peace offering, or more of a round about insult? Like "I don't like the color of your walls, let me buy you paint" Or "I thought you might enjoy painting a picture." KWIM? We don't associate with my FIL much, because he's a huge man child who decided buying himself a knew gun was more important than meeting his granddaughter. That was on her first birthday. She's now 2 and he still has never met her.


couture-mommy
by She.Me.Her on Sep. 20, 2013 at 2:48 PM
Lmmfao I know.
And all it does is give me MORE work
Seeing that ill be the one to paint.
Smh


Quoting twinners.mama:

O goodness. Haha paint won't change what he thinks of you. What a random thing to want to buy you. Haha

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