What is it actually like? When DF and I first met it's something he really wanted to do, but life got in the way. We had DS, bought a house etc. We just kind of got settled with the way things are. But he mentioned the other day that he's been thinking about trying to get back in shape and going for it. But... He's 25 with a family, if he does is he going to be the only person at training juggling all of that? And I know the shifts are crazy, so how often would he actually be home when our 23 mnth old can see him? And for the wives, how scary is it for you knowing he's out there?
I really want to support him in every way I can, not to mention that cops are so so sexy ;). But I also don't want to help him out with getting there and then find myself miserable...
on Sep. 24, 2013 at 11:42 AM