Because I don't work I have to do your school work?
I lost my job earlier in the year and currently receiving unemployment. I plan to start school in January. Right now I'm a stay at home mom while DF works 11 hours and also attends school once a week.
Yesterday he asked me to do his school work so he doesn't get zeros. I politely told him if I do his work I'm enabling him and he will never learn the material. He even said he didn't expect me to help but then he got super angry and even threw a plate on the floor. He proceeded to tell me I do absolutely nothing all day and that I should "help" him.
He has one entire week to do his school work. He works in the morning so there's no excuse for him not to be caught up. At night he plays with his new laptop instead of focusing on school work. So at the last minute he asks me to "help" him. It's not help if I do the work for him. That's not fair to me. It's not my responsibility to bail him out. He chose to go back to school. I did not have any influence on this accept supporting him.
Two weeks ago I say down and wrote his entire speech outline. I did as many assignments as I could and even got him two a's for his class.
After that I felt unappreciated and almost felt like I was taken advantage of.
So when he asked me yesterday to "get as many things done" I said no.
What are your opinions?
Because I lost my job and aren't as busy as I used to be I'm supposed to do his work? That makes no sense. We are not in high school. We are almost 30 and he is acting like a teenager.
The texts he sent me were unbelievable. I feel sad and very heartbroken. He makes me feel embarrassed for losing my job. He makes me feel like I'm a cow that does nothing all day.
What happened to my best friend?