My husband wants to move in to his moms house to save money. I am totally fine living within our means, not going out to eat and not getting new clothes for me for a while, our baby is taken care of and bills are paid.
I cant stand my mil. She was a crappy mom i basically had to teach my husband how to be a man. She thinks the sun shines out my husband's ass and always wedges herself into our relationship and tries to make me seem like the bad guy and split us up.
And there are 4 adults (mil, step fil, sil, sil's fiance) and her 8 year old, and two piece of shit untrained little rat dogs and two cats in a small house with only 1 1/2 bathrooms.
My husband and i would stay in the room he had when he was a teenager, its a finished room in an unfinished basement. And it is tiny. We have a king sized bed, and i doubt it will fit. Nevermind all of our baby's stuff.
And if we lived there i feel like i would be confined to his little bedroom in his dark basement, im bf and not comfortable whipping my boobs out in front of his family and they make me uncomfortable anyway so i would feel more comfortable being around them as little as possible. I can make nice and go over for visits and dinner so they can see the baby but i do NOT want to live with them!
Ugh any advice? I dont understand why my husband wants to live with his mother so bad.... im tempted to just go to my moms house if he goes to his...
Oh and he wont stay with my mom, even though her house is huge, nice, clean and quiet because my mom isnt particularly fond of him because he can be pretty childish sometimes. But my mom has said that we are more than welcome to come stay because she loves me and the baby and understands how uncomfortable mil makes me.