UPDATE again 3:50pm-- UPDATE---I cheated on my husband so he asked for an open relationship. How would you react?
I told him we needed to talk about it later. Now I'm stressing is this a test!? Or do you think he has a woman in mind he plans to sleep with? I realize my mistake and wanted to work it out and move on but part of me agrees an open relationship would be beneficial. I can't help but be jealous now because he brought it up
UPDATE - thanks for all the kind input. Some of you were bitchy but that's okay. I have decided to tell my husband on his lunch break that a 6 month trial open relationship will be okay. Now I wonder during this trial should I still be able to see the same guy I was already seeing? I don't know if he had someone in mind he wanted to sleep with should I ask? How much information should we give each other?
UPDATE AGAIN--- at lunch we talked and I asked if this was really what he wanted. We could still go to counseling and be monogamous. I asked if he already was seeing someone or had someone in mind and he said no. He said he had talked to his brother and they were going to go camping this weekend because he needed some alone time. They are leaving in the morning. He said he would tell me before he slept with someone which I think is nice all things considering. I talked about the other guy and why I did it and he was oddly understanding. He told me that if that relationship made me happy I should continue. Even though I stressed that I had no emotional attatchment. When he went back to work I cried. I don't know what I've gotten myself into.
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