My son will do things after I ask him not to do, like go out of the yard and climb on top of the picnic table and almost fall off. He is usually a good boy but the past few weeks he has been a terror. I have tried spankings (jesus you bitches are crazy. I hit him with my hand once after I redirect him at least 50 times. I did it with his diaper and clothes on and I didn't hit him hard for it to really hurt, just to get his attention. Don't spew your anti bullshit because I don't care), time outs, and redirecting him. Truthfully nothing is working and I am fed up. Any suggestions?