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Very serious situation, WWYD

Anonymous
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I promise I am not a troll. For obvious reasons I am going anon.

DD, 23. Severe learning disabilities. I was told by doctors, mentally she will never mature past the age of 14. She did graduate high school. After some jobs waiting tables, 2 years ago she got a job cooking and serving food at a juvenile detention center. The department she works in is for sex offenders. These boys have raped others.

She drives, pays her bills and is very happy. She rents a small house next door to us.

DH and I just found out that for 7 months she has been dating a man at her work. He is 45, got her pregnant and paid for an abortion. All without us even knowing about him.

I know she is an adult but not mentally. I am heart broken and sad and I want to rip this man apart.

I am tempted to report him to their boss. DD just doesnt understand our anger and doesnt understand why we wouldnt like him!
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:27 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:30 PM

oh wow.  I don't blame you for being upset.   I  would probably report him.

Jodee24
by Gold Member on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:31 PM
Omg I would be sooo upset!! This is what scares me! My daughter has autism and I worry already about when she's an adult!!! (She's 21 months old) lol. I would call! Or do some back ground checking on him!!! Good luck!!!! Xoxo
alexsmomaubrys2
by Ruby Member on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:31 PM
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That is a hard situation. Is she legally able to consent? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:31 PM
I really think we should. I feel so sick.


Quoting Anonymous:

oh wow.  I don't blame you for being upset.   I  would probably report him.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:32 PM

Report him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:34 PM
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If you report him, what would you report him for?  Are you still her legal guardian? Are you a court appointed guardian because she is not capable of making her own choices or taking care of herself?

Elyce225
by Ruby Member on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:34 PM

Wow!

I understand where you are coming from but she lives on her on and pays her own bills. I think you should probably stay out of it. Of course only if it were consensual.
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RMB2011
by Platinum Member on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:34 PM

 I would report him. Its sick to take advantage of someone who is mentally disabled.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:36 PM
Where did the info come from and is it reliable?
AnnaMess
by on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:37 PM

I would probably report him. I deffinately understand your being upset!

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