Why do people say that?
I hear it all the time, when people discover ds is an only child and that I'm single, or sometimes just either or, I hear a sympathetic "oh well, you're still young."
Yes, yes I am. But I fail to see how that is relevant.
Why the pity that I don't have more children and/or I am single?
Does it never occur to people that a) I don't want more children. b) I choose to be single. ??