I have no husband, no boyfriend no nothing. But there is a man I have slept with on and off for a year. Well this year it has been more off than on. So today he said he wanted to see me and I agreed. he said he was going to come at 8. No show at 8 so I texted him at 8:40 to tell him that it was better to cancel as I was not going to wait for him. He texted me at 9:15 saying that he was in my area (he lives 60 miles away) and he was 20 minutes away. I didn't answer. Then 25 minutes later he called me 5 times. One of those 5 times ended in a voicemail in which he was saying he was in my area.
I didn't bother to pick up or return the call.
I am attracted to him but I dont know what turned me off: him being late, him making me assume that he was in my area and not driving just to see me, the fact that i am not ok with this on and off...or the fact that I gained a little bit of weight and it made me less confifent
how do i figure it out?
not that I am trying to win him over but I am curious