My x gets our dd every Tuesday and eow. He's always asking for a couple hours on my weekends and I never decline unless out of town or we have plans. He just had her yesterday 11-1. Today I ask if I can pick her up early next weekend to go to the zoo and he insists on an extra night. Screw that asshole. I'm dumbfounded right now.
Oh ffs you women are ridiculous.
The point is I've never declined extra time. I've never told him to trade it either. I've never said "tough luck buddy".
I've also never asked for part of his time until this. I always plan around "my time".
Also, we've already worked it out so nobody loses time.
And another thing, per the dd, he doesn't have every other weekend, only one night every weekend. HE prefers to go eow instead. So technically, she's due back Saturday if I wanted to be a real bitch. But he prefers to not have her at all eow. So who's really the selfish one?
BY THE WAY
SHE'S SICK SO WE COULDN'T GO THIS WEEKEND