I'm staying on cafemom so.....

[Anonymous]

I don't have to go sleep next to my husband. We are fighting again. It's like nothing I do is enough anymore. I was gonna leave about 4 months back. But he fought me tooth and nail and said we would go to counseling. Except he doesn't wanna go, I told him back then if I ever feel like I'm sacrificing my happiness again I'm leaving. And I'm starting to feel it again. I'm too young to be unhappy.

[Neko_Nightstar]

This is why I am not married. Boys have cooties and they are stupid. Good luck to you.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

BUMP!

[Dzyre1115]

 Are you right fighting?

[justpeachy71904]

I am so glad my husband is awesome

And when he isn't I throat punch him

[zeenah]

I still can't see sacrificing my happiness for anyone. If he loves me he would and should make sure I'm happy and vice versa.

[Anonymous]

I'm actually sleeping on the floor next to my sons crib because I got into a fight with dh.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting Dzyre1115:

 Are you right fighting?

What?

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting Neko_Nightstar:

This is why I am not married. Boys have cooties and they are stupid. Good luck to you.

lol I wish I knew this then!

[TheDrsRose]

Marriage is hard work and there's no shame in leaving if you feel its over.

[Anonymous]

You have two choices here.

If you think it's worth a shot, insist on marriage counseling. Schedule an appointment and tell him if he doesn't show up, he can pack his bags.

If you're positive that you want to end the relationship, then just DO it. Get it over with, so you can move on.

And I mean that all in a kind way... I'm just being blunt. There's no reason to screw around. Pick your path. KWIM?