Am I being unreasonable?? I'm open to the truth.. My step daughters birthday
I am pregnant. I am due on November 2nd.
My husband has a daughter from a previous relationship. Her birthday is November 9th.
His daughter's mother moved to another state. My husband did NOTHING to stop her, even tho' he was opposed to it. He did not even respond to her intent to relocate. Not because he didn't want to - but because he was too lazy to do anything about it.
She lives 6 hours away.
So on her birthday, I'm either going to have a brand new baby or I'm going to be over due.
He wants to go visit for her birthday, and spend the weekend down there. He expects me to go for this trip.
Now if the baby is already born, I am not opposed to him going for the weekend, and even taking my older son with him, but who wants to spend a weekend in a hotel with a brand new baby - not I, that's for sure.
If the baby is not born, I would really rather he stay with me, instead of being 6 hours away from me.I do not want to travel 6 hours from my doctor, if I am a week over due.
He's upset and thinks that I should go either way.
Am I being unreasonable? This being a step mom stuff is tricky. I don't want to keep him from his daughter on her birthday, but I think in this instance, extenuating circumstances come into play..