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Would you play her game?

Anonymous
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     SO and his ex wife have been divorced now fir over 2 years. They have 1 son together.  The CO says she has full custody with SO getting 3 weekends( Friday-Sunday) plus 1 evening every other week. Well they they divorced he worked 2 jobs so only got DS Saturday while she worked and the 1 evening.

     Well now EX wants SO to take DS on Friday also. Now we know what game she is playing. Its not that she wants SO to have more time its that she wants to spend ome time with  her boyfriend. Some how she finally landed a man.  Would you play her game? Or tell her sorry hunny you made your bed now lay in it?

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 1, 2013 at 8:54 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 1, 2013 at 8:57 AM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:00 AM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:00 AM
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Who cares why she wants him to step up and spend more time with his son? There is a CO and he should be following it. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:02 AM


It just shows that she is putting a man in front of her son.

Quoting Anonymous:

Who cares why she wants him to step up and spend more time with his son? There is a CO and he should be following it. 



sheena696
by Gold Member on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:02 AM
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Sounds like you are the one trying to make it into a game. Who gives a crap what she does during the times he is supposed to have his son? Your SO should have taken over Fridays already. You are just trying to make her out to be some villian here and I am failing to see it. He needs to step up and get his kids. End of story. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:03 AM
Game haha like this is a child your talking about right,,, needs his dad,,,, else yeah don't play n someday his kid will be calling some other guy dad,,, see how he likes that
sheena696
by Gold Member on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:03 AM

And trying to get on with her life and make time for herself and dating is NOT putting a man over her son. Wow. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:04 AM
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And what is your SO putting infront of his son that he can't spend this time with him?

Don't be a child, of course she has a life too. 

Quoting Anonymous:


It just shows that she is putting a man in front of her son.

Quoting Anonymous:

Who cares why she wants him to step up and spend more time with his son? There is a CO and he should be following it. 




Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:06 AM


She was fine with ethe agreement til she got herself a man. Now all of a sudden she wans to change it.

Quoting sheena696:

And trying to get on with her life and make time for herself and dating is NOT putting a man over her son. Wow. 



funlovinlady
by Gold Member on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:07 AM
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You're the one making it a game, why wasn't he stepping up before? Plus the co says fri-Sunday so I don't see the issue, he should be spending time with his kid anyways. 

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