apparently my special needs child is just manipulative? uh... updated
I told them sending him home will be a reward he hates school and is not socially invested so could care less. I suggested they try a negative activity like picking up garbage and she wanted me to go down from work to help them. Twice they have asked me to go help them. They have two EA's as well as the teacher in the room.
Twice they have lost him too. So frustrated! They treat him like he is just bad yet the student services girl says she had never seen a kids with such sensory issues and lack of.self regulation. It's because in some ways he is ahead of his peers academically. So happy to find out she is gone for the year. The woman had no clue.
Had another talk with the SS girl and the problem is my son us on the waitlist for diagnosis by a particular group called IKCAN he has been assessed and diagnosed before but they need this particular on. We found out his ped office neglected to send it in back in may.
Ikcan was supposed to call me when they didnt i called and found this out. But the teacher refuses to take his prior assessments and believe he is autistic. The student services is very frustrated because the teacher is very old school and sees him as bad and nothing more. But the SS badically told her she doesnt care what she thinks my son is autustic and she needs to learn to recognize when he is losing his control and send him to her. I found out that yesterday he spent the entire afternoon sitting in the office. Piss me off. That will not happen again. So his first assessment interview is the 18th he is now top of the list but i might have to drive 8 hours, no problem! So maybe when i have another paper to wave the teacher will syop treating him like he is just bad. Ugh the sad thing is there are two other autistic kids in the room. Curious how their parents are finding the experience.