Dh just filed for bm to get supervised visits. Scared!! Help!!! (Piog)
Long story short, bm got evicted, then movedo in with her stepmom. Now she's gotten kicked out of sm's and is living at her dad's apartment. All this information is coming from ss. He told us in great detail how he helped mom back all their clothes into boxes, so we believe him over mom- who has been caught in more lies than we can keep track of. Bm says she Did NOT move, but she changed her current city to where the new place is on Facebook last week. She's required by CO to notify of all moves 30 days prior since she has a problem retaining housing. Her Dad is a drug addict and we' ve witnessed him smoking pot and buying prescription pills from one of his daughters.
Ss has been acting out, regressing, and generally having a rough time adjusting to the constant instability. It started getting significantly worse once bm moved in with her sm.
Dh called the lawyer today and the lawyer wants to file for a custody modification giving bm only supervised visits.
We really just want overnights taken away until she can provide stable housing and her 36 hours during the school week taken away, so she would have state guideline visitation instead of the 30-40% she has now. (Ss spends Wednesday night and Thursday with bm)
So what happens now? What kind of information do we need to start getting together? The lawyer is filing the paperwork today, so I don't know how quickly hearings get scheduled. Any possible problems that you could see coming from this?? Any advice welcome!!