How long has it been since you had sex with your husband?
We've been married since 2006 and this is the longest we have ever gone without doing it. As time went on the time between sex grew and grew. How terrible is this? Is this normal?
To answer some of the questions...
Yeah we used to talk about it. Well I was the one always bringing it up. He always had an excuse for not having sex (someone might hear us, too tired, it's late)
I've begged and cried for sex. I tried everything I could to get his attention (sexy lingerie, costumes, porn, massages).
The problem began right before we got married in 2006 and only got worse. I should have known things were going to get bad when we didn't even hav sex on our honeymoon. We've been together since 2002 and have 3 kids.
I even resorted to telling him that if he wouldn't have sex with me I was going to cheat on him. He never tried to stop me.
I've begged for a divorce but he won't agree. His family is soo extremely religious. Idk how much that has to do with it. I've stuck it out this long for the kids and just to not look bad to my family. How can I admit to my family that I wanted a divorce because he won't touch me? To me, it makes me sound selfish.
I'm soo miserable though. We don't even sleep in the same room anymore.