They are in the middle of moving and have a lot of things going on in their personal lives. I'm not getting into details.
Anyway. In the mornings when I'm getting my son off to school ( between 6:30 and 7:30 am) I make sure we are pretty quiet. No tvs, loud voices ect.
But come around ten o'clock if the girls are not up, I stop being quiet. I go about my normal day. Music playing in the kitchen ( they are in my living room) stuff like that.
My husband thinks it's mean and I should let them sleep until they wake up on their own. I think that by ten, I have a right to go about my day and stop walking on egg shells so they can sleep.
The girls are 11 and 13.
I send the 11 year old to bed by 9 and the teen is in bed by ten. I don't see where it's my fault if they stay up all night knowing I stop being quiet by 10:00 am.
( they are use to being up later because of their mother. I'm forever going out there to tell the 11 year old to stop messing around and go to sleep)
What would you do?